I always want more, don’t I? Always thinking of the horizon. That’s never gotten me anywhere. I’d go to gym and work out at the rep max that they say builds ‘optimal muscle’. And I’d get so sore and hurt myself so easily. It was like a bad joke.
How did I get strong in karate? A lot of mundane, mind-numbing repetition of relatively, unchallenging things. Chopping wood and carrying water isn’t about trying to chop a lot of wood and carrying a lot of water right now. It’s just chopping wood and carrying water – nothing more or less. The habit of a physical reality, a physical relationship with your own body. Once it was punching at air in a mirror, every Monday, Wednesday and Saturday morning for over three years…
And now its doing squats a little lighter than I think I should, doing fewer pullups than I think makes a difference, deadlifts lighter than I can, bench lighter than I’d like, handstands for shorter than is totally exhausting, plank before I collapse and crunches before I start to cramp. I want to be powerful before I’m strong and strong before I’m sturdy. I’m 36 years old. I haven’t even been sturdy in at least seven years.
I can bench 140 lbs eight times. But not one of those reps would be stable. I wouldn’t feel like I was controlling the weight – I’d feel like the weight was controlling me. Same for squats and deadlifts…the anxiety is always there. The anxiety should be there for the last rep, not the first. If it’s there for the first rep, you might be strong enough to lift it, but you sure aren’t sturdy.
Is it just about supporting weight or is it about handling weight with comfort? The difference is night and day. I can lift Sheba but she definitely doesn’t feel like I should do that. It isn’t easy, and she can tell that I’m struggling. I don’t want her to feel my struggle. I want her to feel like she could stay there forever.
Consistency then volume then intensity... Do, do more, then do harder.
So, as I’ve been saying for years and never actually putting into practice, I’m going to show myself some consideration. I’m going to go easy because I have a tendency to go too hard too soon. And who knows, maybe I’ll even find that I enjoy it more than I ever did before.
The body betrays... The heart aches, not of the emotional kind, the kind that is joined with lost breath. When was the last time that I played basketball and kept my breath? 10 years now? 12? It isn't healthy. How to strengthen my heart for something I love so much. How to enjoy it to the fullest.